Planning To Marry A Filipina, Prepare Yourself, Culture, Money Problem, Materialistic
Welcome to this important discussion about Filipina or Philippine Women. Recently I just post a blog about why a Filipina always asking money to a foreigner. Actually I am a Filipina too, but I don’t really like some Filipina treating foreigner.
Believe me I love my country Philippines, but I think we all should be respectful or treat westerners like a human being not a ATM machine. The reason I make a blog post about Filipina or Philippines is because I really want to changes some of my fellow Filipino thoughts. About foreigners that has a lot of money, but the truth is no westerners has hard jobs that paid a little big than in the Philippines.
But they have a lot of mortgage, bills to pay every month that almost all their salary for a month is not enough. Plus they have to pay taxes, I hope that my fellow Filipino who is the parent of a Filipina who is married to a foreigners will understand this kind of situation. And so they wont ask a money to their daughter who is married to a foreigner..
Planning To Marry A Filipina, Prepare Yourself
To all the westerners out there if you been in the Philippines before you probably know a little bit about Filipina or Filipino. But to some of the first timer westerners who plan to visit Philippines you all have to be very extra careful that to be fool enough to believe right away to a Beautiful Filipina that you met that day or in dating sites. You need to learn if she really like you for who you are or she like you because you are a dollar.
I am really disappoint on some of my fellow Filipina who is taking advantages of a foreigner who is first time in the Philippines. I know this is all not my business, but its really sad to see that this is my fellow Filipino doing to a westerners. But to some of the foreigners who is looking for fun only, well Philippines is your paradise. But to all the westerners who is looking for a Filipina wife you need to be careful.
And to all the westerners who is planning to marry a Filipina, you better prepare yourself on this kind of steps. You should think about it really carefully, before you actually marry that Filipina your being with. Its not because of who she is its because of what her family has. What I am trying to say you better know her family first before you marry her or you better talk to her about her family before you get married.
Before you marry your Filipina girlfriend you should know about the Philippine culture first. Some people they really love the Philippine culture, but somehow I don’t really like it now. I like better the older traditional culture. But anyway the reason I want to warn all the westerners about the culture of Filipino its because its kind a too much now a days. If you really wanna marry a Filipina are you prepare well about all the disturbing of your entire life with her.
Because Filipino has a lot of children may 6 or 12 siblings of your wife and they going ask your money. Filipino love to have occasion cooking party specially on their special day. Which is very weird to me, because some Filipino will loan some money to other people. So they can throw a big celebration party for their daughters or son graduations or birthday party. And then after they don’t know how to pay that person back.
Of course they will ask money to their daughter who is married to a foreigner. So think about how many siblings your wife have, and they are all going to celebrate their birthday every year. And not only that every Christmas all the family of your wife is going to ask for Christmas presents plus money. And they don’t really appreciate if you send them a Christmas present of just simple things they want a branded shoes or branded Iphone or other branded and expensive gadget.
Because most of the Filipino are very materialistic oh yeah they are very very materialistic you will definitely noticed once you met one of the Filipino or Filipina. They are always happy if you give them something really expensive and branded clothes or shoes, bag, purse. Which makes them hungry for money cos they wanna buy the new iphone. This is really make me really sad as I don’t understand why they are thinking like this way.
Believe me Filipino or Filipina are very friendly and we are very nice people. And its really hard life in the Philippines its not easy to find a job specially when you are not graduate in high school. But we should always think that everybody is the same poor or rich we shouldn’t take advantages of them. And I am really sad about this cos I think the more years past by the more its getting worse.
But anyway I am writing this blog post because I wanna help the westerners who is looking for their soulmate in the Philippines. But the decision is always up to you, because its your life its your money. Just be careful if you don’t to be used only by a Filipina who don’t love you for who you are. But if you really want to marry a Filipina women please observe and talk to her carefully before you step into married..
Thats all I can give for an advise and warning..
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